Although we can barely
believe Sal is no longer with us, it started us thinking back over the years that we've
known her.
For a start, what an
impact she made on the Glaxo Drama group, not only because she was an excellent actress
but she was a female engineer! Quite a rare occurrence back in the
early 1980s - and she'd met
Prince Charles!
I first saw Sally in one of the Alan Aykbourn plays
and we can't see Penelope
Keith on the telly, without instantly thinking of Sally. She had her
off to a 't'.... and Pete remembers her
brilliant portrayal in Dusa, Fish, Stas and Vi.
Pete and I often tell
the children about Sally's (very sporty) cars and how she gave us a
lift to a party one evening in her
Talbot Lotus. We tootled along the A40 to the Swakeley's roundabout
– and then she put her foot down. We accelerated at an
extraordinary rate (Sally's comment was “She can go”), Meat Loaf
sang Bat Out of Hell at full volume and we knew that this was a super
moment!.
The joy of Sally in our
group of 'Glaxo girls' was that her interests were so varied. We remember the plane
and go kart, especially. It seemed very cool to have a friend who as not only a female
engineer but who also flew a plane and owned one!
She met her breast
cancer diagnosis head on and was just so positive and on the ball
with knowing what was going on with her body and the treatment –
the engineer in her, no doubt, wanting to know all the “techie”
things about the disease and the treatment. And how pleased she was
when we all went to the Lake District and she managed to do a long
walk with us.
Through all of this
the solid thread has been Paul, whose staunch loyalty and love has
shone through the whole history of Sal's illness and treatment – a
true example of compassion and love.
Through all the illness
they maintained, as a couple, their interests in computers, acting,
cars, cricket, snooker, holidays, friends – the list goes on. What
an example!
We have some super
photos of her and Sarah celebrating their 60th birthdays
last year at Fiona's. She'd driven up from
Cornwall and just looked so good.
And now she is gone.
Our daughter Jo saw Sally as pioneering and a role model for Jo and
her generation – that is the impact she had. We send our love to
you, Paul, and mourn a remarkable lady we're proud to call our
friend - gone but never to be forgotten.